Ok...looking back....Id like to correct myself....

Based on the information given, it looks like some poor choices could have been made. Does that place blame...no. I was trying to explain that regardless if you put yourself in a bad position....an experience like this is traumatic....I know firsthand. That being said, I wish the best for the poster and hope she recovers from this. I also hope other people learn from it. I hope that ppl will not look negatively on JA just from reading her post.

That is all

Steph....good point....well made