That's a tough one for sure. I've only been to Negril once but I know not much will keep me from returning over and over. The drinking thing is a killer, but perhaps you could just stick to subs and feel it out for a while before you decide whether or not to book. If they aren't giving you physical problems, perhaps the paranoia will go away. I find in that particular case Negril is much more accomodating at making me feel comfortable with it. Either way, the vibe in Negril beats the pants off Florida every time. So if you can't have the fun you're looking for, what makes Florida a better choice? Is it temptation?