Cherish each sunrise/sunset

[wpyogi]

so so sorry for your loss. hoping you can find peace in all of the things you cherish.

[yetta]

Many blessing sent. Venting is important, so don't hesitate to let it go. Many us on the board, know exactly just how healing Jamaica can be. What may sound crazy to someone else, is reality to many. Jah guide and may you "come back home to heal your pain" And yes, you are so correct on appreciating every sunrise and sunset. Much love and many prayers sent to you and everyone that loved your friend.

[JamSun]

Sorry for your loss. I too have lost someone very dear to me for 40 years just last month. She
will foever have a special place in my heart. I too feel i need to be back in jamaica with my
husband to get through this difficult time as we both are going through the grieving process.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Each day is a gift, cherish every moment.

[irie luv]

Thanks you guys so much for the love and kind words. After I sent the message I did not look at it again until I woke up out of my sleep last night and it felt so good to see all the responses and it soothed my heart.I turned over and went back to sleep. I actually slept good last night for the first time since Sunday. This board can really be theraputic when it needs to be in more ways than one. Its good to hear from those of you who have been thru the same thing,especially Clarity, its like we are experiencing the same loss. Loss of a BFF in her prime. To those of you who responded and have had recent losses, my heart and prayers go out to you as well. Ekfa5, to loose a son is tragic, I am glad you went on with your trip to Jamaica. I guess Jamaica really does have healing powers. It's crazy to see the common thread that for those of us that love Jamaica when there is a loss , thats where our minds go. Im moving on and healing, but got news yesterday that her parents decided to cremate her. It threw me for a loop, I have never known anyone that was cremated. For some unlogical reason, I wanted her to be buried, but I guess those reasons where selfish. I wanted her to go out like Michael Jackson or Whitney or something like that, I felt she deserved a huge homegoing celebration, I would have helped pay for anything and offered to do so .So I decided I am going to do my own ceremony for her the way that I want. I am going to plant a rose bush at Lake Merrit in Oakland, that is where we would hang out a lot and enjoy the view and people watching. Then I am going to try to figure out how to do the floating laterns and let them loose there. That will make me feel better. I think she deserves so much more, but I have no control over the decisions made. But I can controll how I choose to celebrate her life. March is a long way off, thats when I will be back in Jamaica. Until then I have a few concerts lined up that should help me feel Irie. So for all of you in the Bay Area, Luciano will be at the New Parrish in Oakland on Nov 9th. Clarity and Marcus, you should try to make the performance, it will be great.
On another note my son played "3 little birds" for me when I was down. I always play it for him when times get tough. I thought that was sweet. I play it almost every morning as the sun is rising, it makes me feel good.

[Bnewb]

Irie Luv...so very sorry for your loss.
Time does heal as they say...but Jamaica offers a wonderful, gentle way of thoroughly healing the soul!
L&R

[marley9808]

Irie Luv-
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
But it is never too late to take your friend to Jamaica with you, as she will always be in your heart and in your memories!
Jamaica is a magical and healing place
All the best to you

[Guirigay]

Blessings at your time of loss. She lives with you always.

[bjritz]

Irie Luv, I'm so sorry for the passing of your dear friend. Your gratitude for your life warms my heart. Your graceful kind words about your friend are sharing your love, as well as hers to us.