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    Our bellies full, we headed back to our beach for a sub and a cocktail. Before I could believe it, the sun was setting and we there catch it in all its glory.


    I love being in a place where the only thing I have on my calendar is watching the sun set.

    We decided on pizza for dinner that night and turned right down the road and wandered to the Italian cafe. The dining room was like a giant screened gazebo and had pretty paper lantern like lights suspended from the ceiling. It had a really nice vibe to it.

    I have been to Italy and have also spent some time leaving in communities with a big Italian presence. In my experience, pizza at an Italian restaurant is generally an individual sized affair, especially if the pizza only comes one size. It wasn't expensive, so I assumed that would be the case. So we each pick our pizza and order up. When they arrive, each is the size my local dominos would call a large. It was a thin crust, but still it was huge! There were going to be leftovers. It was delicious and though I don't recall how much it was, it felt like great value.

    I am sorry for the lack of photos in this report. I am only guessing, but I think that I must have 250 pictures of the sun setting and 40 of the rest of the trip. I think I was too busy trying to figure out what I was doing to think to take a picture.

    However, I do have a small problem with intoxication and bathroom photos. I have bathroom pictures from most everywhere I have been in the world. In the days of print film, it was more limited, but in the digital age, it is a free-for-all. You could lay odds after I have had a few beverages and I head to the loo, as to whether I will come back with a photo...or two...or three. The Italian Cafe was no different. Pretty sure I was fascinated by the bamboo and thatch construction. I think we had wine with dinner; I'm going to blame it.


    Second day into our trip and walking along the beach road is starting not to feel so intimidating. We are starting to slow down our pace and just enjoy the sights and sounds. There are still lot of folks eager to sell their wares, but it is feeling less oppressive.

    The one thing I haven't yet figured out is the language. Now I am not talking about the patois. I had no expectation of understanding that. I am talking about the accent to the English. This isn't at all intended as a knock at all on the Jamaicans; it is my issue not theirs.

    The single biggest challenge we both had on our trip was a total inability to understand what people were saying to us. It might as well have been in Greek. In fact, if it had been Greek, it would have been easier, as at least I wouldn't have been supposed to understand. As it was, I was having a heck of a time communicating. Everyone had to repeat everything and I was feeling like a bit of idiot.

    If you recall in various Peanuts/Charlie Brown TV specials, when every an adult spoke, all we heard was "wah wah wah woh wah wah woh." This is what I was hearing in Jamaica.

    A clip to jog your memory. No one is putting me to sleep, but it wasn't an easy clip to find.


    I see Shamrock's on our way back and we pop in to check it out. I had heard somewhere about Shamrock's magic orange juice and I wanted to give it a try. Add to that list a few cold Red Stripe for the room and snacks should we find ourselves with the munchies. We discovered Rough Top Coconut Drops the day before and the first bag is already history. Sunshine is exploring the cookies; I am all over the chips and cheesy snacks.

    I love exploring the snack food aisle in foreign places. I am always interested in what kinds of things other people see as snack flavors. The Jamaicans seem to have my number. In this paradise I am also in heaven.

    All our goodies selected, it's time to cash out. I say hello to the fellow behind the till. "Wah wah wah woh wah" he replies. Gosh I hope that wasn't important. I pass over my goods; he rings them in to the till.

    "Wah wah woh wah."

    Hmmm, he is probably telling me how much this all is, I'll just give him a big bill. Ok, now he's giving me change that is a good sign.

    "Have a good evening," I say.

    "Wah woh wah," he replies

    He's turned to the next customer, doesn't seem to be waiting for anything. I'm outta here.

    I added up the change when we got back to the room, and I was pleasantly surprised. If you stick to the local fare and skip the American imports, you can stretch you snack dollar a long way.


    Bellies full and Red Stripe in hand, we head down to the beach to enjoy a sub. I can hear the party getting underway at Alfred's. There was a point in the planning process where I really thought I would want to go, but the beach is so chill and tranquil. I couldn't imagine anyplace I would want to be other than here with my honey. I like chilling with him and I don't need to spend the money or go through the hassle.

    In my younger days, if there was a party, you could pretty much count on me being there. A new club opening up, I was there the first week. As I got a bit older, I really lost interest in doing these things. I would much rather sit with a smaller group around a table, bar, campfire, etc, enjoying random conversation than get dressed up and go spinning about the clubs. A lot of the time, I would rather pour myself a drink and curl up with Sunshine at home. I have been rather hard on myself about that change. Rather than taking it as a sign of changing interests, I chalked it up to some character flaw.

    Sitting on that beach in Jamaica, enjoying the evening my way, I seemed to find peace with that fact. I am no less of a person for not wanting to join the party at Alfred's. I also reserve the right to change my mind. If next time I want to go, that is ok too. The important thing is I need to not beat myself up about it.

    Now my recollection of this evening is all warm and fuzzy, but Sunshine seems to remember things a bit differently. Apparently that evening, there was a hustler out on the beach that was well past when he should have been home and much hollering ensued. I do recall security yelling at some dude, but it really didn't mark my evening. For Sunshine however, things really clouded over.

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    This is like a Guirigay and Clarity trip report rolled into one. I love it!!





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    Love the report, and I love the comment "I love being in a place where the only thing I have on my calendar is watching the sun set", I plan to steal this to use on my next vacation! Can't wait for more, keep going....

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    "Wah Woh Wah"

    LOL!! This had me cracking up so much!! This was exactly what it was like for me on my first trip to Jamaica! I found myself nodding a lot with a confused smile because I just wasn't getting it. Markus and I would just whisper guesses to eachother.

    Thanks for your kind words about our TR, Let me tell you I am really really loving your trip report so far. It's incredibly well-written, insightful, funny, and so engaging. I found myself thinking "yes!!" to so many of your observations and sentiments. The pictures are beautiful too. (those bathroom pics! lol! I have a lot of those too - good to know I'm not alone haha!) As soon as I started, I couldn't stop reading and now I'm at the end, I'm sad. I'm waiting eagerly for the next update. Thankfully you update faster than I do. I'm grateful for that. This is really great, please keep it coming!

    Oh and I can so relate to your early posts about the uber-planning before a trip, I'm totally guilty of the same.
    Carpe Diem

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    Lovin' your report-- it just keeps getting better! And I'm with Clarity-- the "Wah Wah Woh Wah" is hilarious!! My sisters often compare individuals to the Charlie Brown teachers, only it's usually after a really boring meeting at work. For us, it means, blah blah blah. But I really look forward to the Jamaican "Wah Wah Woh Wah." I guess I'd better learn to smile and nod, too! Very carefully, of course. I don't want to agree to something that I might regret!

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    I am loving every bit of your report! Can't wait for more!!

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    Wow I can relate to so many of your thoughts and feelings and I just can't get over how you are so effortlessly weaving them into the story. i feel like I'm getting to know you

    Specifically, I am laughing at how much I understand your sentiments regarding the party scene and not always wanting to be in the middle of it. You nailed it. I have to admit, its more of an issue for me at home than in Negril, but at the same time I know exactly what you mean!! I finally came to terms with it as well LOL

    Wah wah woh wah.....you are too damn much i'm literally LOL at my desk reading this...
    GO ON GIRL keep it comin!
    Stir IT UP

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    This is so great!
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    Great report! I love that you are doing things at your own pace! One question???? Was the older Rasta Man you 1st ran into wearing white dreads and living next to Rooms on the Beach? When we were down in July, we searched for a 60 year old Rasta named Jobby, who lived to the right of Rooms and they told me he'd moved on...

    Happy Travels...

    SKB

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    Chapter 7

    Adversity is a fact of life. It can’t be controlled. What we can control is how we react to it.
    – Unknown


    Monday dawns and Sunshine is cranky and just plain out of sorts. Don't let the sun outside our window fool you, he is having a cloudy day.

    Without wanting to make this story any longer than it need be, Sunshine losing his cool somewhere around the third day of a vacation is not a new phenomena. This has happened before. There is something about the combination of travel, strange schedules and unfamiliar places that seems to lead towards minor meltdowns. Sometimes, in the moment they don't seem that minor. He did once, on day 3 of a 16 day European vacation, declare he was going to the airport and not leaving until someone flew him home. I made him take a nap. By the next morning, most of the clouds had past and by day five, it was like the storm had never come.

    In Jamaica, this cloudiness felt harder to me, as I was on unfamiliar ground as well. It is hard to be an anchor when you are already adrift.

    We got up, had our Shamrock's OJ, which is the single greatest orange juice I have ever had the pleasure of consuming. We had a few snacks to tide us over, but we did need to find food.

    This time we venture towards the beach. I knew from my map that Mama Flo's was not far past Alfred's so we headed on down to check it out. It was on my 'cheap but good eats' list. We arrived and were the only customers.

    "Hello" I say.

    "Wah woh wah wah," I get in reply. Oh dear, not this again.

    "We'd like to have lunch please." Alright, I know it is our breakfast, but since I want lunch food and it is almost lunch time, I am trying to minimize the confusion/requirement for conversation.

    "Wah wah wah wah woh wah," with a gesture that seems to imply pick any seat you'd like.

    We settle in and our waiter brings menus. This guessing what people are saying thing is going ok. He asks what we would like to drink, at least I hope that is what he said because I answered Red Stripe; it seemed to be the right response. We order off the menu. Waiter disappears to the kitchen, some muffled conversation takes place. Saying nothing at all, our waiter wanders back past us, out to the beach and heads for a swim. Seriously? I have heard about things getting done on Jamaican time, but did our waiter just leave and go for a swim?


    I thought it was funny. Sunshine's clouds got a bit darker.

    Our food arrived, brought out by the cook, since the waiter is still frolicking in the sea. I had an egg and tomato sandwich, Sunshine had a burger. Though there wasn't anything exactly wrong with the food, it wasn't that great. They may have just been having an off day. Unfortunately, that is just fueling the storm sitting next to me.

    We walk back to the hotel and I suggest we settle into the beach. Sunshine plays along for a bit and then declares he is going back to the room. Annoyed, I give him a bit of a "Yeah, whatever," response and seethe for awhile on my lounger.

    After a bit of time spent muttering to myself, I started to feel the sun shining on me. It was comforting. I wandered down to the water and floated on my own in the surf for awhile. The waves had a certain soothing quality to them. After a while, I felt my annoyance kind of drifting away. I came to the conclusion that Sunshine having a cloudy day was ok, we all have them. More importantly for me though, this wasn't something I needed to fix; in fact, it wasn't something I even could fix. I was reminded of the serenity prayer. I think this was a 'wisdom to know the difference' moment. In that moment, right then, what I needed to do was enjoy the peace and solitude that was right in front of me.

    So I sat on my lounger and I picked up my book. I watched the people go by and enjoyed my day. I wandered back to the room a couple of times, mostly because I needed to pee. Sunshine had the curtains drawn, the lights out and some random TV on. That is ok, I remind myself; if sitting in the dark is his thing today, let him be.

    I just love sitting under the palms.


    I eventually dragged Sunshine down to watch the sunset, partly because it was good for him but mostly because I didn't want to be alone for that moment. I know I said I would let him be, but I am taking baby steps here.


    After the sun had set, I decided it was time to negotiate how the rest of this day was going to go down. I may have been starting to settle into this Jamaica thing, but I wasn't ready to hang out by myself after dark. I also knew that if I don't put a bit of momentum behind Sunshine, he was just as likely to dig himself a deeper hole to wallow in as to snap out of it. Negotiate might not be the right word for how this conversation went down.

    "Sunshine, we need a plan for how this evening is going to go down."

    "Huh," was his witty reply.

    "Well, we've gotta eat and we've gotta drink, neither of which is going to happen if we don't leave the hotel."

    "Well, I guess."

    "OK, let me rephrase," I continued, "I have to eat and drink. I am not going out there by myself, so you are just going to have to come along.

    "I am going to make this simple for you. We are going to walk up to Shamrock's and get supplies. On our way back, we will stop in at Sweet Spot. I know our last visit was a disaster, but we know the food is good, we will have enough money this time and we can just bring it back to the room. After that, you can sit in the room all night if you like."

    I got kind of a grumpy look that I loosely translated to agreement.


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