Rhodes Hall is a great place. Stayed there a few years back. Still too many people, even in low season.
We've gotten to the point where we really like the solitude of a self catering cottage. Harding Hall is the best. Day or night. It would be nice to find the same vibe ocean front.
We head in to town when we (I) feel the need to have a converstation with someone other than the spouse, grab a bite to eat locally or pick up groceries for the next few days.