Great trip report but sorry to hear (read) about your separation. I know those feelings well. Shortly after my divorce, a friend invited me to Negril. Found so much peace and healing there that I didn't want to leave. My ex-husband and I had traveled a lot when we were married, but never to Negril, so was thankful to have no memories of being with him there. When you go back to Jamaica, maybe you should try visiting a different part of the island until it doesn't hurt so much to be in Negril. Most of the couples I know, though, have gone through temporary separations and eventually worked things out, so hang in there!