As far as I know, Gerry is an adult. How he spends his vacation is his prerogative! As long as he's not hurting anyone, and all of the people involved consent to it, WHO CARES? You guys act like you know him. He's a complete stranger, an online poster who many of you will probably NEVER meet. Negative comments regarding his ACTUAL experience are the reason many negril.com boardies "censor" their trip-reports and give us a sugar-coated version. Too many judgemental views!