Thanks for the replies!

My wife and I are like most of you - we don't go on a trip to be "one of the cattle". We enjoy the adventure (if you can really call it that!) of getting off the resort and meeting the locals there. Heck, I've been known to book a flight and hotel just for the first couple of nights, rent a car and take off and see what happens!

Don't worry, we're not letting her ruin our trip! We ARE going - her husband says he's in for the pub crawl, his wife says he isn't - so we'll see! LOLOLOL

Honestly, I fail to understand why someone would believe negative 4th party heresay rather than from two people who have been there multiple times!

At any rate, we're going for sure!

Stay Irie my friends!