CoCo or a bit more $ Idle Awhile...From there you can walk right next door to Sun Beach for some music or dinner. Safe there,20 feet away....CoCo has Managers parties and pool parites,nothing crazy but you will want to mingle a bit...My wife and I are mid 50's.

I met a group at Breezes Grand few years ago,a couple in their 60's and two ladies in the same age....We had dinner at the Japaneese place...Turns out they had been coming to Negil since the 70's together....The two other ladies were now widows but Sal kept the group together and they still go !!!! Thats what I would want my wife to do....So------GO.....Bring some sand in a jar back for your husband....He would want that I think,right?