You've got some great suggestions! I have no doubt that all will be irie! Enjoy yourself and take a break for you. Too often, as caregivers to our loved ones, we tend to forget ourselves. Time to re-group and relax...then you can start again "and make your heart fresh". Have a wondrous trip to clear your mind and your soul. I admire the fact that you are taking this time...it will not only help you, but your husband. As a retired RN of 37 years, I know all too well how the caregivers often need time too. Kudos to you for realizing that. Jah guide!