I usually come to find these people have only been to cruise ports and just feel they were hassled too much. I tell them if you're that nervous you probably wouldn't enjoy yourself anyways so don't go, more for me! We recently suggested to our newlywed friends to give it a try so they tried Couples. By mid week they had jumped on the one love bar crawl so they were catching on. The main thing that bothers me is when I tell people I'm going they immediately think I'm going to smoke ganja when in reality its just as easy to get here.