Take a deep breath girl!
Pull the luggage out and put in it only what you need.
Do you have an online grocery service? A grocery store that delivers? Utilize and get those groceries brought to you.
As for getting the house ready? Your parents don't care what the house looks like I'm sure and because they are gracious enough to come and look after the little ones, I am sure they are gracious enough to understand what a busy lady you are
Running low on money ........ that's what credit cards are for
Sending positive vibes and prayers to ward off the big C.
Red Stripe ....... soon come!