Hey Cindit,
Great news about your return to Negril and splitting time between the cliffs and the beach should cover your bases. As far as your husband goes I would forgo the Red Stripes and start with a visit to Miss Brown for a large cup of tea as a starter. Later on a nice big piece of Ganja cake and a couple Overproof chasers should conquer any shyness issues that are unresolved. The only problem being with the mushroom tea is that once the genie is out of the bottle there is no getting it back in. You might find you got a wild and crazy guy there!!!!!