Ladies: What is the kindest and most humorous way you rebuff the beach boys?

[Beebeluv]

lmao... reverse phsycology at its most entertaining...

conversation translated into american slang.... not about to attemp patois...

Him: " hey girl, you look good. how about you and me spend some time?"
"US": " You gotta job?" or " I would like a rum punch." (don't ask for dirty banana... he might say I got your dirty banana and that would defeat the purpose)... or "OH i just love this bracelet(trinket,ect.) will you get it for me?"
Him: "oh... (long pause) I think I hear my friend calling me"

why... because he was a gigalo... lol unfortunatly ladies your "boyfriends" I'm not saying every single one but most are not really your boyfriends they take care of your physical while your there but they get stuff out of it and you know it. wheather or not your paying him blatently for it or you pay for his food and drinks while your there he's still a "working man" and when you leave it's "NEXT!"... Sorry but yeah ... Again I'm not saying it's true for all cases but most of them ...that's how it is. don't fool yourself and get hurt... last thing you want is to inadvertantly hurt yourself from being "blind"... I love this thread tho... keep the rejection lines coming....lol

[jenb]

lmao... reverse phsycology at its most entertaining...

conversation translated into american slang.... not about to attemp patois...

Him: " hey girl, you look good. how about you and me spend some time?"
"US": " You gotta job?" or " I would like a rum punch." (don't ask for dirty banana... he might say I got your dirty banana and that would defeat the purpose)... or "OH i just love this bracelet(trinket,ect.) will you get it for me?"
Him: "oh... (long pause) I think I hear my friend calling me"

why... because he was a gigalo... lol unfortunatly ladies your "boyfriends" I'm not saying every single one but most are not really your boyfriends they take care of your physical while your there but they get stuff out of it and you know it. wheather or not your paying him blatently for it or you pay for his food and drinks while your there he's still a "working man" and when you leave it's "NEXT!"... Sorry but yeah ... Again I'm not saying it's true for all cases but most of them ...that's how it is. don't fool yourself and get hurt... last thing you want is to inadvertantly hurt yourself from being "blind"... I love this thread tho... keep the rejection lines coming....lol

i've known the score for a long time but sometimes it's tempting especially when alcohol clouds your judgement. a friend of mine went to negril, i warned her up and down not to get involved with the beach boys, sure enough she did (she's very trusting) and sure enough he asked her for gifts from home. i think it bothered her that she didn't find the one genuine guy on the beach.

'don't ask for a dirty banana' haha good advice!

[kaycee]

And turning his questions on himself is always a good move. If he wants a drink, tell him to buy you one first...etc.

One guy asked for my number;I told him to top up my phone and he could call me. He just kissed his teeth and moved along.

[jenb]

And turning his questions on himself is always a good move. If he wants a drink, tell him to buy you one first...etc.

One guy asked for my number;I told him to top up my phone and he could call me. He just kissed his teeth and moved along.

sometimes their sense of humour is lacking but reverse psychology may be a good strategy.

[nicole.edith]

This is one thing I'm really not excited about, especially since it's just the two of us gals travelling together. We've both been happily married for 10+ years and that's so not what we're there for...

How does the simple ignoring tactic work?

[Misti1]

This is one thing I'm really not excited about, especially since it's just the two of us gals travelling together. We've both been happily married for 10+ years and that's so not what we're there for...

How does the simple ignoring tactic work?

That would probably work pretty good... except in a few rare cases you might get a good bumba cussing out.

[tfw73]

Dear Nicole.Com:

I reluctantly share this tip out of a fear of it losing its effectiveness...

Nevertheless, I am a giver...

I have discovered a 'weird little trick' for getting folks to respect your personal space.

It is a little bit cumbersome, however...

And tends to distract oneself from full enjoyment of one's surroundings...

Yet, for those times when you really just want to be left alone,

It works perfectly:

Simply pretend to be talking on your cell phone.

For some reason, perhaps out of an awareness that cell phone time is almost literally money, folks really back off when they see the hand to ear...

Having some imaginary conversation demanding the 'documents' from the imaginary other party doesn't hurt either...

While this is somewhat of a pain, it definitely works.

Take care and have fun!

L.C.

I have used this trick also. Another one I love is pretending not to speak English. This works well in NOLA. Lots of street beggars there and when you don't speak English they have always left me alone.

[Misti1]

I have used this trick also. Another one I love is pretending not to speak English. This works well in NOLA. Lots of street beggars there and when you don't speak English they have always left me alone.

LMAO off at this one. Might work on some, but I once saw a guy stand by a fence in the sun for almost 3 hours trying to get the come over from one of my girls. If they are determined they will watch you from afar and the second you put that phone from your ear they are ON IT .
FYI... most beach gigs know Italian, Romanian, Japanese... French,... you name it . LMAO

[tfw73]

LMAO off at this one. Might work on some, but I once saw a guy stand by a fence in the sun for almost 3 hours trying to get the come over from one of my girls. If they are determined they will watch you from afar and the second you put that phone from your ear they are ON IT .
FYI... most beach gigs know Italian, Romanian, Japanese... French,... you name it . LMAO

Well, that's why I use that one in the US! Haha!

I've never been bothered, that or I am oblivious to it!

[tfw73]

I have never been approached in that way before in Negril. I must not be what they are looking for! LOL