i have seen and heard more "stuff" then i want to remember

but the male "marketing" process is different and it works

i think the males get continued Western Union, houses built, babies

the women get paid and go on to the next "thing"

i know a few Jamaica women that married Americans and came to the states --- they stay married -- for the most part

a lot of the men (not all) --- set their alarm clock for 5 years (citizenship in the USA) and bye buh