You’re in the exact same predicament I was in a while back!
I wanted to find somewhere special for the night of our 10 year wedding anniversary.
My first thought was Tensing Pen (booked)
Second thought was Rockhouse (entirely booked out)
Our wedding was on 4/20 and apparently that’s the most popular date for marriages in Jamaica. (go figure!)

Then someone told me about Villa Sur Mer. We had the most romantic and amazing anniversary ever. It could not have been more perfect for us. The staff is incredible, the grounds are lush, beautiful and VERY private. There is a lagoon pool and a cave that leads underground to the ocean.

Here’s some video of we took at Villa Sur Mer on our anniversary day



Here are some pictures:
http://negril.com/forum/showthread.p...beautiful-here!!!

It was an beautiful experience that I’ll never forget.

The other suggestions are good as well, if you’re looking for a stay on the beach. I agree that the honeymoon suite at Kuyaba looks really awesome. I’ve also heard good things about Moondance cliffs. It looks beautiful there too. I hope you find the perfect place for your wedding night!