LOL, don't apologize. The path to Ivan's is fine for heels, I wouldn't personally but I never wear them. At dinner you won't see anyone in bikinis & cover ups. A lot of people in shorts/t shirts and many will be more dressed up. Your table (for the 100 candles) will be set off from the others (the other side of the cove), so you won't actually be seated around any one else. If you want to get dressed up, go for it, it's your night

Attached is a picture of the path to Ivans

Name:  Jamaica 2012 (268) (Copy).jpg
Views: 637
Size:  101.7 KB

And the spot they do the 100 candles dinner (in the daytime)...

Name:  Jamaica 2012 (82) (Copy).jpg
Views: 681
Size:  97.4 KB

Hope this helps! Enjoy