No worries Clarity! You CAN have babies and still travel to fun places. :-) We always traveled a lot before kids, and still travel a ton with our little ones. My kids are great little travelers! And, remember, you are also blessed to have some family in Jamaica that would probably watch your baby for night, so that you & Markus can still enjoy a night out sans kids!

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THANKS Booger, Eden, Prism, Misti1, WiltedDazies, Patty, Angel, Sweetness, Maryann, Reggae Roy, Kaycee, Islander, Seveen, Flipadelphia , Guirigay, Suzengrace, Tizzy, & MoinMonroe!!

Suzengrace – I agree! You know how brutal and long the commute from CA is… (on this stretch it was almost 30 Hours total round trip door to door!) 5 days is too short, but it was worth it. 5 days is better than not going at all... I wouldn't take a trip this short in length again though

Boogs & Eden – LOL! Okay…yes Markus and I are dreaming about a December Trip, I’m not gonna to lie. We’ve never experienced the holidays in Jamaica. It would be the most amazing experience! I just don’t know if it’s in the stars for us.

Although I didn’t think Guirigay & Sweetie Pie were going and now he has a new ticker! He’s right; anything is possible. I just can’t get too emotionally invested in the idea. I don’t know what the future holds for us.

Most people have their kids early and then travel together later on. We’re kind of doing it the other way around…and this incredible chapter of our lives is going to end soon. A new chapter will begin. (P.S. this is where everyone tells me about the joy of parenthood – please?)

Flipadelphia – I can relate to what you wrote about your family situation. I had the same concerns. I’ve got the teen in my family that doesn’t always relate to the “old ones” Me and My sister. I have ups and downs with my father – as I’ve mentioned… we don’t always see eye to eye. My family is far from perfect and we had a few rocky moments even on this beautiful trip.

I think the key to vacationing with your family is to focus on your similarities and overlook the differences. Really be IN the moment and try to avoid bringing up past resentments or issues that can spur arguments. There were things my father said that would have rubbed me the wrong way usually but I LET IT GO to keep the peace and for harmony. As a result, he made more of an effort too.

Jamaica isn’t going to erase all your family issues or problems, but it’s hard to focus on them when you’re surrounded by beauty. It’s the perfect backdrop for meaningful conversations and making great memories.

Have an awesome time in Negril w/ your family! I’m sure it will be great!