MissBlue,
Gilbert was a life changing event for me, essentially the sole reason I chose to move here in the first place. That is something I will never forget. But it would have been nice to know about it say a day or two in advance, and I as well as most of the residents of Negril appreciate at least the option of knowing about things like that in the year 2013.
As for the things I mentioned, no one is making you use any of them. An you dont need to venture very far from Negril to find a "more rugged state". You can choose to not use a phone and there are still places in and around Negril that you can rent with no running water or electricity. And you can always choose to take a route taxi through the interior of the island to get to Negril to recapture that "adventure travel" feeling. I assure you that there are still life lessons there for you to learn. Even after 20 years of living here, I am still learning things.
But in all fairness to those of us who do live in Negril, while it may be an "adventure" to have no phone, water or electricity for week or two - spending your life without those things is not all that pleasing.
As for the tourist attractions and pub crawls, once again - no one is making you do those things, they are simply offered for those that want to do those activities.
And in all honesty, you probably would have never heard about Negril when you did without the "tourist attractions" of those early days where Bob Marley, Peter Tosh, Mick Jagger, Keith Richards and Paul McCartney hung out including places the Wharf Club, the Negril Yacht Club, the Negril Beach Village and Rick's Cafe. Those places helped put Negril on the map for those early adventurers in the late 60's and 70's.
But to each their own and each of us looks at things different. This history lesson is now finished.... (grin)